Suffocating Socities World Over October 30, 2005

Being loner since childhood I was always an observer observing people since I remember and see so much of foolishness in each of us. It's we who are responsible for our own tragedies and crises. Either enlighten your thoughts for a new beginning, a new dawn or someday yourself face those road-blocks. I have seen and learnt to perfect myself each day with each new lessons of life. I try not to force my perception in as everyone has their own and everyone is born to live their own dreams.

Any individual follows certain way of life and may be we like it or not or even if we like it it's mostly because we grow up in such environment practising all from our very childhood so it's deeply embedded. Other societies or any individual outside may not approve of others ways of life or thoughts as it may be evil or not justified for them. I always felt that we can analyze issues only within the limits of our own knowledge and thoughts. It's always one's enlightenment and farsightedness not amalgamated with any prejudice to make every life better.

We suffocate or develop liking like zombies for forced or already accepted prevailing societal laws and patterns without questions. If we just get serious only a day and analyze people living around us and we see we all are so superficial and false controlling others ways of living. Everyday in the print and electronic media we see many real life examples of such society care takers(irony) - an adult man or a woman gets married to his/her choice and these caretakers oppose this and to do this they go beyond human rights and sometimes resulting in life threatening incidents and all this for so petty reasons. Imagine that most of these caretakers keep mistresses not 1 but 2 or 3 and even they may have been keeping an eye on the women in their area of self declared authority and I know many such people in my town too. We can see unlimited issues around with many different forms of forced control.
Its futile and waste of time when we talk and debate on issues of women empowerment, human rights, LGBT, sexuality, freedom, hunger, poverty and many other bold strong but real issues. Sometimes even I feel that these discussions are more of high-society's fake fashionable statements in media but I see that there is always something good hidden even in the most evil thing. As hope never dies and even a ray of light in the dead darkness is enough to enlighten. These superficial debates & discussions certainly bring awareness & give rise to a few heroes who fight for people for truth, for humanity. At last we all have to give people the freedom to live and think the way one desires and world is certainly moving that way slowly accepting transitions so why not we all start today as even we all are the complainants at a point of time on issues that matters to us so try understanding others freedom too. If we make people suffocate then next it's our turn too so have caution. It's easy complaining than understanding and becoming a change.

DOGS r better--------------28 oct 2005

                                                           DIEGO PICTURE

Dogs as pets have proved their loyalty and companionship to us for ages without any exaggeration and will continue to do so forever. Thanks to relationship crisis because at least we got to discover our love for animals besides only using them as guard or pleasure pets. Its unfortunate that after so much of sufferings that destiny designs for them we continue doing the worst by adding more to their sufferings.

I love my dog very much and he is 3 yrs old but I have tears filling my eyes at the thought of its life of may be 12 years. I fear if ever he leaves me. I remember when on few occasions it ran away from my house, I got so much worried and suffocated without him. His love is so much greater than human beings because he can only love me without any mask which we all use to cover our torn evil faces and play so easily with each other. It's the responsibility of the new generation, the time is theirs to care for this beautiful world for a better tomorrow and smile for animals too and do get worried for their pain. On doing all this one can feel the humanity and greatness within. we have to have a broader view on every issue around us with positive approach.

Once when my family was ready to throw my dog out of the house because he attacked me, that whole night I couldn't sleep. It was not because of the pain of the wound but it was the sheer pain at the thought of separation from my dog. The same night I made my choice and it was that even if I am killed by my dog then I want my family not to hurt this so lovely animal. I knew that if we can keep swinging our moods then why not these animals, may be it was frustrated or in a state of mind where it made that mistake. I was very right because after that my dog didn't eat and looked very sad. He kept staring at me out of guilt and his eyes made me feel his guilt. he knew he did wrong and kept licking my wound for next 4-5 days.. I was more happy that at least he knew he was wrong and in real loves me so much.

Every time I see around and I see people either don't regret about their faults and even if they regret then its not so instant and it's mostly out of selfish reasons related to needs of networking. So dogs are better.