GOOD TIMES, bad times

Good times and bad times is something that we all face and even the most powerful and richest cannot escape this. I have also seen most horrifying and death like bad times in my life and this whole idea of sufferings and happiness in life has left me thinking as how to go on in life without caring much about bad times.

ITS unfortunate that in our good times we invite completely wrong people for celebrations, we want them to be with us and smile with us.we forget or its coded in human nature that makes us feel that may be we cannot survive or be part of the society if we dont entertain that very crowd which never recognised even our existence in bad times. Its extremely tragic when in our most tragic moments we are forgotten and left all alone to an extent of our clans extiction. Its a personal experience too.
I never understood why our everyday living and good times so incomplete without those people who were never around in our bad times and what more shocking if they actually initiated the chain reaction of our tragedies.

FOR me, I would rather share my happy times with orphans in an orphanage or with hungry & bare skins of poverty on a road side. That will make sense when money and emotions wasted in a big fake celebrations of good times may bring smile on faces that rarely smile.

What celebration would be greater than feeding hungry stomachs and covering bare skins where skin itself seems to have forgotten if clothes also exist.
BUT have caution that don't make celebration with poverty and hunger a fashionable and style act that many stylish people do. DO this with your heart and you will feel your good times increase manifold. Best use your times with animal care who are most ignored and get cruel treatment in Asia and butchered across globe.

MY last 30 days visit to places with 30 days of smile on my face has made me more confident about achieving happiness if one really wants to. Its more about being your own self and do whatever heart desires but without hurting someones sentiments because its this goodness that makes anyone more happy. Its about internal satisfaction where our heart and mind feels great and that in turn makes us feel complete and purposeful. Good times don't stay longer, this we all know yet we all want it to stay for ever. Bad times always feels like it will never end because it's heavier, tiresome and frustrating and our continuous cribbing about problems makes it more longer.

One thing I always know that life is a big river flowing where bad times has larger share from which we all have to steal moments of happiness. I have seen situations where peoples silly mistakes destroys good times. Identifying good times and understanding this whole concept of being happy is only way of holding back GOOD TIMES for long time. live every moment, enjoy every part of life and smile with every individual you find on your journey. Our straight faces, locked lips, small heart and bad attitude gets us a slot of bad times which we all are in.

Remeber life looks short when we are too happy because we fear of losing our happy times and want it more longer, longer than average human life.
Life feels more longer when we are tired and unhappy because the overload of problems and unhappiness makes life miserable and living with all this makes us feel as if we are pushing our life ahead to somehow reach somewhere.
We all have share of good time and bad time, its for us to choose what we want to stay with.